How many times have you tried getting Mr. Right’s attention? How often did you wonder what exactly you could have done to attract that special guy and keep his attention? Have you often cried yourself to sleep knowing that your attempts at attracting your guy have failed once again? Women spend a lot of time crying over guys, especially when they meet the perfect guy. They worry about they did or didn’t do, whether they wore the right outfit, whether or not they were being too pushy or forward, or just get down on themselves after many failed relationship attempts. Here are 5 tips to catch his eye and gain his full attention.
1) Mesmerize your guy by communicating with him. Find out his interests, what he likes to do, what he doesn’t like to do, what his beliefs are and what his feelings are about life in general. By showing your interest in what your guy likes and engaging in conversation about those things with him, your guy will see you as genuine and real and it will instantly capture his attention.
2) Just be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Trying to be the person that your guy wants you to be will eventually backfire. Your guy will find out who you really are and it will make yourself less attractive to him. By being honest and showing your true personality, your guy will appreciate you more and you will instantly attract his attention.
3) Be sensitive to his needs. Even though guys put on this mask of being strong and indestructible they are actually very vulnerable on the inside. Guys are afraid of showing their sensitive side to a women because they feel it takes away from their manhood. When you show your guy that you are sensitive and make him feel comfortable to show his sensitive side as well he will appreciate you more and will instantly attract him.
4) Dress to impress. Dress to fit your personality and your own style. Don’t attempt to dress in styles that don’t flatter you or don’t fit who you truly are. If you have an outgoing personality, dress in clothes that are colorful and full of life, and maybe shows some curves without showing too much skin. If you are a sports nut or an outdoors person, dress in clothes that reflect that. If you are a conservative business woman, dress in casual high fashion to keep your conservative personality but also showing your guy you can wear a pair of jeans or casual pants while still showing your intelligence. Don’t dress in clothes that are too tight, show too much skin, or are too small/short. The more skin you show, the more your guy is going to see you in a sexual capacity rather than a true relationship capacity. Leave some mystery. Dress to impress but don’t show too much.
5) Smile as much as possible. Show off your pearly whites to your guy! Even if you’re self-conscious about your smile it will show off your mesmerizing and outgoing personality. Melt his heart with your smile regardless of self-conscious you are. He is attracted to you for a reason and chances are even if your smile isn’t flawless it won’t matter to him because you have already attracted him with your personality, your charm, and your ability to carry on a conversation with him.
These tips seem like common sense but often times women obsess about what they should be doing rather than letting things happen naturally and being their own person. Follow these tips and you will win over your guy in all the right ways.
