Talking with your gal pals on a “girl’s night out,” you notice a guy from across the room and immediately your heart starts skipping. You catch his eye, you may have smiled at him, but he doesn’t seem to give you the sign that he likes you. Throughout the night you catch him looking at you, slowly moving his way over to you, then getting sidetracked by his friends or other women who weren’t afraid to approach this handsome stranger. So, is he showing that he could be interested in you or is he just playing “the game?” How to tell if a guy likes you?
The first meeting is usually when your eyes meet for the first time. You’re both either drawn to each other instantly or one of you decides to turn the other way. But if you are the one that decides to turn away from this guy how can you tell if he likes you? Maybe he just got caught up in the conversation but is secretly waiting for his next window of opportunity to catch your eye again. Knowing the signs that your guy likes you will help you work up the nerve to take those baby steps his way in what could be a “match made in heaven” relationship.
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You By Studying The Guy Carefully
See how he acts around other women. If he seems too flirtatious with other women then chances are he’s not the type of guy you’re looking for. If he is talking to other women as he would talk to his buddies and isn’t showing interest in these other women (i.e. touching their shoulders, body turned away from them) then the chances are good that knows how to handle other women on a strict friendship level.
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You By Watching Carefully How He Looks At You
The look he gives you when his eyes first meet his eyes will give it away. This look is so powerful that, even from across the room, you can feel the intensity and emotion he is portraying and the vibes he is giving off. This is your cue to give him that honest and pure smile. If you get one in return, you know you’ve got him locked in.
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You By Studying His Body Language
This is the time to make your move or give a gesture to your guy to come to you. If he picks up on that gesture and initiates the first move, this is where you need to remember to just be yourself. You’re going to be nervous but you can’t allow those nerves to totally encompass your actions towards him. Pay attention to his body language and how he moves towards you. If he quickly moves to you take that as a sign that he is eager to meet you and is eager to enter the wonderful world of figuring out your mysterious ways. Talk to him, stay calm, be positive, and be yourself. The conversation will just flow and before you know it, you will be engaged in meaningful conversation.
Once you get past that first conversation, he may ask that magic question: “are you seeing anyone?” You have caught his interest and he wants to get to know you better. Exchange phone numbers and let him know you’re interested. Plan to call one another to set up that first date. If he is interested, he will call you.
Your guy now has your number. Don’t sit by the phone waiting for him to call. Be proactive if it’s been 2 or 3 days and call him to show that you are interested, even if it’s just to leave a message saying you enjoyed his company and would love to get together for a drink, coffee, or even lunch sometime. If he initiates the first phone call there is no doubt that he is interested. If he calls you back after your first phone call and wants to set up a date to get together, obviously he likes you. Don’t wait for him though. If he hasn’t called after 2 or 3 days and you give him that courtesy call and he still doesn’t call you, don’t sweat it. Let it go and move on. Giving him those few days to stew and go crazy about whether or not to call you or wondering if you’re going to call him first is going to make his interest in you grow and become more intense.
Let’s face it, it’s not easy to figure men out. Trying to catch the signs that tell you if he likes you before you engage in any type of conversation is going to be a battle. Don’t beat yourself up about it though. If it’s going to happen, let it happen. If not, then that leaves you more opportunities to find that perfect guy who will show interest and who will want to pursue something more than just a few intimate glances across the room.
